Harmonizing Humanist

Harmonizing Humanist appreciates mutual understanding and tolerance, owing to her ability to compromise for the sake of keeping peace and harmony. She accepts people as they are, forgiving their weaknesses and not trying to change them. She rarely voices disapproval and instead waits for people to become aware of their guilt. She is able to sense the underlying nature of the human soul, often noticing changes in people's thoughts and emotions long before the person sees this themselves. Thanks to this, she is well-versed in understanding complicated situations. She readily assists others, since she understands the degree to which change must be made in order to maintain stable relationships. She helps a person in making difficult choices as unobtrusively as possible. Knows how to interpret dreams, understanding the meaning of children's fears and feelings. She is gifted with a good memory about past events. Moonlighting - or taking too many jobs at once - is not good for her, as things will not be presented and done neatly. She ensures that exterior and interior aesthetics are taken into account. Fearful of domestic discomfort, she listens to the advice of competent and experienced people in these regards. It is quite difficult to gain entry into harmonizing Ell's spiritual world: she will not share her secrets if there is the even slightest doubt of one's integrity. She often finds herself critical of capricious people who cannot appreciate what they have now - their health, loved ones, an established way of life, etc. Characterised by indecision and self-doubt, Harmonizing Humanist is overwhelmed by doubt and anxiety about the consequences of actions. She has little initiative behaviorally, including within personal relationships. She dresses modestly so as not to stand out. Dreams of being in harmony with a partner, sharing tastes, attitudes, and hobbies; however, at heart she is aware that this is hardly feasible. She is critical of her own appearance and volitional qualities. Remarks by strangers on this subject can be veiy hurtful to her due to her inferiority complex. Cherishes inner peace, although she performs her natural mission of empathizing with other people's suffering and adjusting the psychological atmosphere. She is strained by the conflicts between members of a team she might be on, which may lead her to lie in order to distance herself - saying, for example, that she was ill with a stomach ulcer or vision problems, etc. Addressing contradictions between her desires and the needs of the outer world lead Harmonizing Humanist to ever-greater introspection and aversion from the world.