EII vs LII

I enjoy listening to people and relieving their emotional tension.

When solving a general task, I focus on the perception of the other person rather than the task itself – it is very important to me what my partner feels, thinks of me, or whether they love me.

I am very sensitive to the feelings and needs of others.

Feelings are more important to me than thoughts.

Each person has their own 'flavor' and significance to me.

I usually feel another person's experiences as my own.

The world of people, emotions, and feelings is much more interesting to me than the world of machines and natural laws.

Powerful passions and feelings rule the world and are generally stronger than reason and us.

I always automatically pay attention to any changes in the relationships of my acquaintances.

I worry about the misfortunes of others.

In books, I am more interested in relationships between people than the plot.

I usually notice earlier than others if someone is tired or unwell and am always ready to help unobtrusively.

I am a master at catching the 'emotional vibrations' of another person.

I don't like judging and resolving conflicts, but I can reconcile people.

If someone has trouble, I immediately feel an emotional response in my soul to this sad event, even if I don't know the person.

Often and with pleasure, I engage in 'finding an approach to people.'

Almost everything that happens around me stays in my memory for a long time, evoking evaluation and vivid feelings.

I am a very empathetic person.

Professions like social worker, psychologist, educator, or veterinarian would suit my character very well.

The anticipation of someone's 'thank you,' sincere gratitude, almost always motivates me to act.

I am sensitive and observant to sudden small shifts towards more negative, cold, minor, or dissatisfied moods in my partner or interlocutor.

A very accurate and comprehensive set of concepts characterizing me: feelings, agreement, peace, humanity, commandments, conscientiousness, shame, politeness, obligation, human soul, forgiveness, poetry, fate.

A person is fundamentally incomprehensible – there is too much unknowable and changeable in them.

It's easy for me to feel relationships between people; I quickly distinguish genuine feelings from pretentious ones.

I often notice changes in the relationships of my acquaintances.

I enjoy nurturing and pacifying.

Key concepts for me: imagination, empathy, compassion, soul, traditions, commandments, duty, tact, self-sacrifice, accuracy.

I often try to guess the carefully hidden motives behind someone's behavior and words.

I can 'feel' any person or phenomenon from within.

I like reconciling people (around my age).

There are things that, if I start talking about them, make my voice tremble and even bring tears to my eyes.

I often worry about what someone thinks of me.

I still remember many important visual or auditory details of events experienced long ago but during which I felt intense emotional tension (check yourself, try to recall).

Sometimes I am haunted by loud intrusive thoughts accusing me of sinful behavior.

When I communicate with a person experiencing trouble, I start feeling anxiety and depression almost as they do.

I often pay attention to changes in the relationships of familiar people.

My mood is highly dependent on the support of my actions by others.

I always pay attention to who knows whom and what the basis of their closeness is.

I am dependent on public opinion (at least no less, and rather more, than others).

I like finding out what my friends feel and what they really need.

I sometimes enjoy patronizing people from a position of requester.

For my motivation, it is crucial that my achievements and merits are noticed and acknowledged by those close to me.

Mere trifles can often put me in an agitated or upset state.

I always note and remember who knows whom and what the basis of their closeness is.

My thoughts are often occupied with regrets about my mistakes and how others might react to them.

In my youth, I was very lenient and empathetic towards others while being very critical of myself.

My temporary lack of demand from people, the absence of positive 'reinforcement' through external approval, quickly leads me to depression and lowered self-esteem.

Persistent feelings of guilt often plague me.

I often take an interest in the affairs of my relatives.

I have some frequent and obsessive memories.

I can communicate with suffering people.

Compared to others, I have a special talent for patience and responsiveness, upbringing, and selflessness.

I often worry about what hasn't happened yet but could potentially occur.

Sometimes I experience prolonged feelings of guilt with self-reproach and pangs of conscience.

Stressful states occur regularly for me, at least once a week.

Sometimes I focus on thoughts about how worthless I am.

I am haunted by some shameful memories.

I can usually explain why another person I know acted differently in a situation than I would have.

Sometimes I cannot distract myself from a disturbing fantasy.

I like helping others.

I regularly (at least once a week) have excessively anxious states without good reason.

When meeting friends, I always ask them about something.

I often engage in spiritual 'self-flagellation.'

Sometimes I heap insults on myself.

I spend all my time with pleasure working and caring – but caring not for myself, but for 'my people': family, friends, colleagues, the common cause.

One person, intending to say 'Nelson Rockefeller,' once said: 'Nelson Nockenfellen, that is, Relso Rickenfeller, that is, Felso Nockerfelson.' I often have similar errors when trying to pronounce some complex word.

Others are constantly trying to use and manipulate me.